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Step 6. Get Out There And Meet Women!
There comes a point when you need to take action. You can read this website backwards and forwards fifty times. You can scour the net for every article you can possibly find on "How To Score With Hot Chicks," but it's all worthless until you get out there and put your thoughts into action.
Your job now is to stop reading and get out there and approach women. Yes it will feel awkward at first. Yes it can be embarrassing. Yes you'll fall on your face and look foolish at times. Yes you'll experience rejection. And yes it will hurt.
But that's ok! Have the courage to go out there and experience life. I believe that many if not the majority of men are frustrated and unhappy with their lives. They go through life taking the easiest path. The safest path they can find through which they'll experience the smallest amount of discomfort possible. Eventually they awkwardly stumble into a relationship and eventually settle down because "She's better than nothing and I don't want to be alone." Then they live in an unsatisfying relationship and lead an unsatisfying life. How pitiful!
That may be the safest and easiest path but it's not a very interesting one. You only live once. I'd rather fail miserably and painfully many times and achieve one great success in life than to never fail but never succeed at anything truly worthwhile in life. Life isn't worth living unless you take risks.
Get out there and start approaching women. Starting right now, we challenge you to set aside a portion of your time once a week to go out there and start approaching women. It doesn't matter where, it doesn't matter how. Just get out there and start approaching. Don't worry if you say the wrong thing, don't apply the principles that you've learned correctly, or make a fool of yourself.
Even doing the wrong things during an approach or date helps you learn. With every failure you experience you'll get closer to a success. As I've said before, look at failures as earning points towards a future success. Just get out there and try.
You need to start earning those points because as you experience failure and go through those awkward moments, they'll begin to sting less and less. You'll feel less embarrassed and less awkward. Eventually you'll stop caring about whether a woman turns you down or not. This is the golden moment when you can start working on your game and really start achieving success with women. When you stop caring, the fear is then gone and you can begin to develop real skill in seducing women.
Once a week go out there and meet ten women. Yeah, I know that's a lot. I didn't say you had to have ten conversations, I said you just had to go out and MEET ten women. You can meet 10 women in about 10 minutes at a busy mall. If you're painfully shy then start by saying "Hi" to ten women as you pass them in the mall or at school. Just look at them, smile, and say "Hi." From there move on to real approaches, "Hi my names 'whatever' what's yours." It doesn't matter what you say just say something!
Keep a journal and record your progress. The key is to pile up enough failures so that eventually you'll stop caring about rejection and will get over your nervous ticks. The ultimate goal is to be able to approach women without caring whether you succeed or not. At this point you'll have developed real confidence and she'll see that. This is when your success ratio skyrocket.
Up until that time view your failures as points. You need to earn so many failure points to get to the next success level.
The bottom line is that there is not shortcut to being successful with women. You just have to get out there and approach them. What you can improve is your success ratio. And it will improve with practice and time. Rejections will also begin to sting less and less. Eventually you won't care if a woman turns you down. This is what you're aiming for, that golden moment when you stop caring. That's when the success really starts.
So get out there and start earning those points!