Sell Women On Your Potential
“How can I get a woman if I’m flat broke?” We get emails all the time asking the same question. They always follow the same basic template. Kid is struggling his way through college while working a crappy minimum wage job. He doesn’t think anyone will like him because he’s broke. Hence his confidence is crushed and he doesn’t even make an attempt. He instead curses the rich college kids who were born with silver spoons in their mouths.
So what does the kid focus on when meeting women? His crappy job. You’re right, they don’t want to hear about the ins and outs of proper burger flipping. They want to hear about your potential! Don’t let your self image revolve around how much money you make or what you do for a living.
There are all kinds of things you can do that don’t take money. Like we’ve said before, action dates are always preferable to going out to an expensive dinner. Rollerblading, biking, a walk in the park, they’re all free! You don’t need to spend money to have a good time.
Will they care that you flip burgers for a living? Of course they will! If that’s your only ambition in life. But you’re flipping burgers so that you can put yourself through school and have a real profession. While the rich kids are being handed everything on a silver platter, you’re developing character, something much more appealing to quality women than a fat wallet.
Always concentrate on what you plan to become. Sell them on your potential. Talk about your ambitions, your dreams. Tell them that eventually you’ll start your own IT consulting firm, or will become a partner at a law office. You do have a dream right? If you don’t have ambition and solid plans for the future, then you need to work on yourself before even considering finding a girlfriend.
Ultimately, all most women really care about is how you make them feel inside. Be someone that is fun and exciting to hang out with. Share your many interests and hobbies with your date. Leave her feeling energized!
Women are emotional creatures. Make her glow inside and she’ll be yours whether you flip burgers or own a multimillion dollar business.