Women Send Mixed Signals
A woman can be head over heals in love with you and you’d never even know it. Why? Because women expect you to make the first move. They always want you to approach them first. Women send such mixed signals that they’re not even worth trying to decipher. You’re lucky if you even get a smile in your direction as an indication of their interest. Often times women will pay LESS attention to men they’re interested in so that the poor guy won’t know she likes him. Doesn’t make any sense does it?
Hot women in particular are approached by lots of men, all the time. They’re used to being hit on constantly. Therefore they reason that if you like them, you’ll simply approach and make a move. If you don’t, then you’re either not interested or are not masculine enough. In other words, you’re too cowardly. Why would they want to date a coward?
“So you’re saying that they expect us to psychically know if they like
us or not?”
Yup, that’s pretty much correct. Women can be baffling at times. Many of them hold onto this romantic notion that they shouldn’t have to show any interest in the man they desire. They’ll reason that, “If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be.” “The universe will find a way for us to be together.” “Soul mates always find each other.” “Insert other random garbage cliché here.”
Many years ago when I was much less experienced and far less bold, I knew this gorgeous woman named Sarah. I had this huge crush on her. I suspected at the time that she might like me but I didn’t know for sure. Sometimes we’d chat and she’d seem interested, but then I’d keep second guessing myself. I’d nearly get up the courage to ask her out, but then I’d create an excuse not to. “She doesn’t seem as friendly today as she did three days ago.” I was looking for some sign from her that it was safe to make a move.
Two years later I saw her again at a party. It’s amazing how liquor opens people up. Needless to say I was astonished to hear her ask me why I never took her out on a date. When I asked her why she never said anything before, her response was “That was your job!”
Looking back it’s hard to believe I was ever that timid. Now I’d simply go up and ask for her phone number. I’d know within five minutes whether or not I had a chance with her. I wouldn’t stay up at night replaying discussions we’d had in my mind, analyzing her mixed signals, searching for signs that we were meant to be together.
For you guys out there that are as timid as I used to be, I suggest using my current approach. If your supply of women that you date is running low, then simply hit on every woman you encounter that you’re attracted to. It works for me. Do I get a phone number every time? Nope. But I don’t care, I just move on to the next woman. Eventually I get more numbers than I know what to do with. Seducing women truly is a numbers game.
Don’t worry about whether or not a woman likes you. Don’t waste your time attempting to decipher the mixed signals they send you. Just cowboy up and approach them.